As a professional psychic, I know what creates an optimum reading experience. I know the conditions necessary to open a large, clear channel in order to gain access to higher information, and I also know what conditions and attitudes can completely close that channel.
I cannot tell you the amount of times I have seen a client get in his or her own way when getting a reading. As a psychic, I’d like to offer a few things to remember in order to obtain an optimum psychic reading:
1. The client should not be there to test the psychic, but rather to seek guidance and spiritual information.
I’ve never quite understood why a client would want to pay hard earned dollars to sit in front of a psychic with arms crossed, mouth pulled down in a frown and their entire body seemingly ready to pounce as soon as the psychic gets something wrong. What’s the point? Why do anything if you do not want to do it right?
The reality is that a client with that kind of attitude is almost guaranteed to receive a compromised reading, and sometimes no reading at all.
Let’s not forget that psychics are real people. We are not circus performers or magicians. Real psychics will not cold-read or make things up on the fly; we want to use our abilities to help you in a real and productive way. We want you to leave feeling better, feeling equipped, feeling hopeful and energized. In other words, our intentions are good, and you ought to treat us accordingly because of that.
The way a psychic gets any kind of sixth-sense information is by tuning into your energetic and spiritual field. This field allows us access to all sorts of things, such as patterns and trends currently in your life, spirit guides, past life information, angels, future information, discarnate entities, and much more.
Yet what happens when you, the client, sits there frowning with your arms crossed? Or provides no feedback? Or scoffs? It closes not only your physical energy but also your entire psychic field. When your field is closed the psychic is also closed. If the psychic is closed he or she will not be able to read you adequately, if at all. Clearly, this does nothing but waste both your time and the time of the psychic.
Therefore, when you go for a psychic reading, do so with a good attitude and an open heart. Your results will be far better.
2. Future information is fluid, therefore changeable. This means there is no psychic who will get future predictions right, all of the time.
Too many clients think that if a psychic’s future prediction doesn’t come to pass it means the psychic isn’t real or good at what he or she does. This couldn’t be farther from the truth.
The future is constrained by time, and time is ever changing, ever fluid. When Edgar Cayce gave his world predictions, for example, he was basing them on patterns and trends currently in play at the time he tapped into that particular psychic information.
In other words, based on what humanity was doing at the time of Cayce’s reading, and based on the impact of humanity on the planet at that time, etc., Cayce saw what was likely to happen in the future. Did all of his predictions come true? To date, they have not. While many have certainly come to pass, no one can deny that Cayce missed on certain dates and events. Yet does that make Cayce a “fake psychic” or a bad psychic?
Hardly! He’s regarded as the most talented, legitimate, ethical American psychic of the 20th century, and for good reason. Because he was.
Cayce himself said that we alter our future by simply changing ourselves and the things that we do. In fact he encouraged people to change their attitudes and behavior for the express purpose of changing the predictions he himself gave. Any psychic worth his or her salt, if they see something negative approaching in your future, will not only provide you with this information but also information as to how to change the outcome. In other words, we give you the tools to render our own future predictions unrealized!
The future — how it will look, who will be in it, what will happen or even if a future will happen — is promised to no one. No psychic can change the fact of that.
3. Psychics are not more talented, more gifted, or more “anything” than their clients.
Though I have used it, I don’t much like the word “gifted”. A gift implies something was given, or provided — something a person did not have previously. We give gifts when we seek to honor another person, or to make them feel special. Yet psychics aren’t special, at least compared to anybody else. We are not rock stars. We are not Important People. We are just People, like you.
I have sat across many a client who looked upon me as if I was some kind of celebrity simply because I do what I do. As if my words and advice ought to somehow trump or outweigh theirs. That should never be the case! A psychic is never more important than you just because we use our abilities. We are only people who do a particular type of work, work you as the client can choose to take or to leave, and work you could actually do for yourself if you put the time and energy into enhancing your own abilities.
Although some of us were born with extreme talents, the rest of us have had to work very hard at strengthening our abilities in order to use them for the benefit of ourselves and others. What makes a psychic different than a client is that psychism (and typically, spirituality) is the psychic’s primary focus, and we use what we learn to help others. But different doesn’t equal better.
So, in conclusion, psychics do their best work when they are treated as equals, without cynicism and negativity, by people with open hearts and reasonable expectations. The best way to get good information is to show up with a good attitude. Simply put, the client has just as much affect on a psychic reading as the psychic…if not more.
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